Can we be youthful after 40?

  Is it possible to be youthful after 40?  That’s a good question to discuss.   Sometimes I hear a song, see a product, or smell a scent that reminds me of those young days.  I remember having young skin, being skinny, having energy, and just loving life.  I think to myself I miss those days.

   I’m not talking about the teenage days.  You couldn’t pay me enough money to go back there.  Mainly because of the traumatic childhood I had.  No, I’m talking about my early 20’s.  That is when I got my first apartment.  Even the simplest things seemed so satisfying.  Just to be able to come home from work and feel like a grown up.  My friends and I would play cards, laugh, and just have fun.  Now, I know a lot of you would think what is the big deal?   Well the big deal is, I was the first of my friends to be single and not have children to have my own place.  It was really cool. 

   Are there some things I would have done differently. Sure!  One of the things I would have done differently is I would have started a career much earlier.  I’m not talking about just working full time at a Shell station (I was an assistant manager).  I’m talking an actual career.  I didn’t go to college seriously (I played around my first semester right out of high school) until I was 29.   There were a lot of mistakes made, but there were also a lot of great memories. 

   What are some memories you have that bring back your youth?